How to Talk to Your K̶i̶d̶s̶ Parents About S̶e̶x̶ Death

What is important to your parents? Do you know? It's a complex conversation that is better had well before you need to. It's a challenge to start but we'll share our personal stories to help your conversations along. We are 4 first generation daughters who are at different points in the end of life process with our families:
*One of us is trying to figure out a way to start a conversation about it
*One of us is persistently trying something, learning continually, and then trying other approaches, making step by step progress
*One of us was bombarded by a sudden diagnosis/prognosis and forced immediately into conversations you have to have
*One of us has had both parents die and had no conversations in spite of attempted efforts to have them