Never Can Say Goodbye, Part 1 of 3
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In this three-part Reimagine series, Darnell Lamont Walker and special guests explore themes from his new book Never Can Say Goodbye: The Life of a Death Doula and the Art of a Peaceful End (Harper One, 2026). What’s a death doula? In many ways, it’s a role we all need to learn and develop: being present emotionally and spiritually at the bedside, to help our beloveds feel seen and heard, and to honor their wishes in their final days. Because we all face mortality, the series is for everyone. According to Darnell, “If you’ve ever sat with someone who was grieving, if you’ve ever listened to a loved one tell a story from their past, if you’ve ever been there for someone when they needed comfort—you’ve already been doing the work. You’ve been holding space, just like my grandmother held space for me all those years ago.”
Topics will include the traditions and the taboos that surround death and dying across cultures, the impact of generational trauma on our ability to grieve, racial inequities at end of life, Medical Aid in Dying (MAiD), the power of collective mourning when public figures and celebrities die, and the capacity of storytelling to guide us from grief towards growth.
Discussions will also cover Darnell’s eight steps to dying with fewer regrets: getting honest with yourself, embracing your mortality, finding your truth, telling your story, letting go of perfection, connecting with others, defining your own success, and living with intention.
Session 1 focuses on the collective grief surrounding the deaths of public figures and celebrities, as well as ordinary individuals whose lives resonated with others after their deaths. Why is there an outpouring of grief of these individuals who we’ve never actually met? Are we mourning something else besides that individual? How do race and class inform who gets remembered? How are we transformed as individuals and groups when we gather for vigils and rituals, both in person and online? Can recounting the lives of luminaries and lesser-known folks inspire us to share our own stories?
From February 2 to April 17, 2026, registrants to the series receive a 15% discount on the paperback version of Never Can Say Goodbye on Bookshop.org using the code REIMAGINE.
Darnell Lamont Walker is a death doula, Emmy-nominated children’s television writer, producer, and explorer. Born in Charlottesville, Virginia, he creates spaces worldwide for healing through storytelling, end-of-life care, and workshops on grief, resilience, unlocking the writer within, and radical empathy. He joyfully lives in the Chattahoochee National Forest of North Georgia.
James R. (Bob) Hagerty, based in Pittsburgh, was a reporter and editor for The Wall Street Journal and the International Herald Tribune for more than 45 years, based in New York, Hong Kong, Paris, London, Brussels and Atlanta. From 2017 to 2023, he was the lead obituary writer for the WSJ. He continues to write obituaries and other stories on a freelance basis for the WSJ, the New York Times and other outlets. Hagerty holds a degree in economics from the University of North Dakota. He is the author of Yours Truly, a guide to writing life stories, and The Fateful History of Fannie Mae, an account of a minor New Deal program that grew willy nilly into a giant role in America's home-mortgage industry. In his spare time, he is an English-language tutor for immigrants, directs a Scrabble club and helps run a senior softball league.
wsj.com/news/author/james-r-hagerty
Mary-Frances O’Connor, PhD is a professor of psychology at the University of Arizona, where she directs the Grief, Loss and Social Stress (GLASS) Lab, investigating the effects of grief on the brain and the body. Her book The Grieving Brain was included on Oprah’s list of Best Books to Comfort a Grieving Friend. O’Connor holds a PhD in clinical psychology from the University of Arizona and completed a post-doctoral fellowship in psychoneuroimmunology at the UCLA Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior. Having grown up in Montana, she now lives in Tucson, Arizona.
https://maryfrancesoconnor.org/
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