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Calling all queer grievers: The holidays can intensify feelings of loss—whether from the death of a loved one, estrangement, or living with illness. You’re not alone.
Guy-Wire Grief & Survival Counseling
"Lending stability during unstable times." In engineering, a guy-wire is a secure cable that stabilizes a freestanding structure, preventing it from toppling over.
A resource by The Lost Travelers Club
Henry‑Cameron Allen, OCP, ICGC
Complementary therapist, mentor & counselor.
I use Deep Organ Therapy℠ (DOT) to align brain‑heart‑gut so you move from overwhelm to orientation with skills, meaning, and action.
Who I Work With
- Men (primary): grief, identity, anger, purpose, fatherhood, moral injury, andropause navigation, complex guilt & forgiveness.
- Women: grief, caregiving, life transitions, complex guilt & forgiveness.
- Couples & Families: healthy communication, conflict repair, meaning-making rituals, forgiveness & amends work.
- Youth: age-appropriate coping skills, emotional literacy, caregiver partnering, Life Skills mentoring.
Our Inspiration
It began as a vow, not a venture. When my 13-year-old son passed in 2008 from brain cancer, I went looking for grounded, empathetic support, especially for fathers, and found major gaps.
I built what I needed and wished existed: first through projects like The Lost Travelers Club, and later through Guy-Wire, a place to lend stability during unstable times.
Formal training and accreditation came alongside, but the engine has always been Love put to work.
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